Forgive and Forget :)

Life is too short to carry a grudge. Let's learn to forgive, even if we can't forget. :)

It's the ability to know down in your soul that you can now  handle the pain that was caused you. It heals your heart, not theirs. Sometimes you forgive people not cause you can forget what they did, but because not having them in your life leaves an empty space that can never be forgotten! But don't let mistakes ruin a friendship, put them behind you and move on, and let your friendship get stronger :). Besides, forgive and forget is the only way to live without pain from the past, but if you still feel pain after the forgiving, you haven't really forgiven at all.

    I always think that try to forgive those who take advantage of and mistreat you. You may never forget but you will grow stronger and know how to handle situations better. The learning from the past is important, but we also need to forgive ourselves of our mistakes, actions, inactions. We must live in the present, facing the future. Yeahh!  Only good things can come when you let go of something negative things. Trust me :). When people keep a record of your wrongs, remember God is keeping a record of theirs. 

    Actually, the motive I'm writing this post is not only about the mean of forgiveness, but I need a forgiveness from Nabihah :(. Nabihah, I'm sorry for not attending your brother's wedding although I had promise to you. I'm really² sorry. When I call Amalin, then her mother answer that she's still in KL while Fathihah is at Besut, Terengganu be on holiday with her family so, the conclusion is the three of us can't attend and need a forgiveness from you hehe :) . I hope you enjoy the wedding and send my regards to your brother k :)